This is a key point and one of the many reasons people think that Spiritual Laws do not work.
Most people, like me at one time, make goals and see needed changes for everyone around
them but themselves. They become stuck saying: I'd be ok if; He would just do this or she
would be kinder, or they wouldn't do that anymore…. leaving themselves out of the equation
and the result is victimhood and stuckness.

Taking responsibility for oneself isn't always fun especially if it involves change, old habits, and
evacuating comfort zones! However, being responsible for what we can change which is parts
of ourselves like our perceptions, not taking comments and behaviors of others personally, and
choosing to reflect before we react will put us back in our own drivers seat so to speak.

This doesn't always change things outside of us but it does change us and when we change
our situation reflects that. People who have been an irritant may somehow slip out of your life,
new friends who are more aligned with your greater sense of self awareness may find their way
into your life and sometimes there aren't tangible changes but we find ourselves no longer upset
by the previously irritating situation. We do always have a choice to re-think, take responsibility,
and relax!

Isn't life too short to keep ramming our heads against the wall even if we feel we are RIGHT~?

If you have specific questions please email me. I would be happy to have
a conversation with you. Also if there is a topic you'd like to explore in
relation to this let me know and perhaps a show would be in order1

Thanks for sharing.
Karen

Thank you!

Debby Sutherland