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I Am The Tallest Puppy
This is a funny statement with an interesting story
taken from a Radio Show that I aired on January 29th
with Coach Kristy Swanson.
We were talking about
limiting beliefs people hold that keep them from
living at their fullest potential. Kristy shared this
saying that people in Australia use when someone is
going on about their strengths.
They say, ” Don’t be the tallest poppy!”
I actually heard Puppy but Kristy
really did say Poppy. We decided it was OK that I change
the saying for myself and I also chose to change the directive.
You see the saying, Don’t be the tallest poppy is a
warning to NOT stand out by bragging. Some of us
got this message as children and were told
attracting attention to ourselves was somehow wrong.
Not to mention the assumption that accepting and
focusing on strengths could be bragging or unattractive~
Consequently the people that
took this advice to heart might begin to focus more on
their weaknesses and somehow that was more attractive!??
Of course not, but the damage was done.
Inherent in this message was;
” Who do you think you are?”
As champions of our clients’ greatness and desire
to help them actualize all of their potential
Kristy and I are shouting;
BE the Tallest Poppy, in my case, Puppy!
Why?
Because being the tallest puppy is about being honest
and present to our talents and greatness.
Saying yes to stepping up and out of the shadows
is a part of every one’s journey who wants to live
Authentically and Purposefully.
In the words of Marianne Williamson:
“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented,
and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be?
You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn’t
serve the world. There’s nothing enlightened about
shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you.
We are all meant to shine, as children do. We are born
to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.
It’s not just in some of us, it’s in everyone. And as we
let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people
permission to do the same. As we are liberated from
our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”
So you see, we truly are serving when we share our greatness
with our self, first by admitting the truth of our innate
amazingness (my word) to ourselves and then putting those
talents to work in the world following our hearts
and our passions in service to others.
And like Marianne points out, when we live
our greatness out loud we become role models
for those who have yet to embrace their fullness
giving them ‘permission’ to follow in our footsteps.
I can’t think of a better reason to take a look within
and see if you still have any of those dis-empowering
beliefs and messages from long ago that keep you playing small,
hiding in the shadows from your own greatness!
I Am the Tallest Puppy!~ Join me
Karen



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